Peer Mediators
Peer mediation is a school based program that uses conflict resolution as a means to settle student disputes peacefully. Peer Mediation is not counseling. The mediation process focuses on problems, not people.
Students can see Mrs. Breon, Guidance Counselor any time. Peer mediation is an alternative process for helping students solve problems.
Student mediators are a diverse group of students who have been trained to help people in conflict find ways to resolve their problems. They encourage people to work through the problem and reach agreements that are workable for them.
A mediator is not there to give advice or act as a judge to decide who is right or wrong. They do not take sides. A mediator is not a gossip since they must keep all information confidential.
A mediator must undergo training in the areas of active listening, communication, and problem solving. The training provides ample opportunities to practice these skills.
Students in grades 3 through 8 can request a mediation. Request forms are found in class rooms, and in common areas of the school.
If both parties agree to settle their dispute through mediation, a meeting will be arranged. Two peer mediators and one adult supervisor will be there with the disputants. The adult does not take part in the mediation but assists if difficulties arise in obtaining a successful conclusion.
Mediation is a six step process. The assigned mediators will take the students through the steps, so that a resolution to the problem may be reached. At that time, a contract is drawn and both disputants sign it.
Mediator Training
A mediator must undergo training in the areas of:
- active listening
- communication
- problem solving
The training provides ample opportunities to practice these skills.
Types of Disputes
- rumors
- name-calling
- fighting
- threats
- loss of property
- general disagreements
Disputes Not Mediated
- serious or repeated acts of violence
- issues involving drugs or alcohol use or abuse
- issues involving physical or sexual abuse
Requests for Mediation
A mediation request can come from a student, teacher, or administrator. A mediation request form should be completed by the person making the request and returned to the mediation box in the designated areas. Request forms can be found in each classroom, main office, counseling room, and cafeteria.
What Happens At Mediation?
If both parties agree to settle their dispute through mediation, a meeting will be arranged. Two peer mediators and one adult supervisor will be there with the disputants. The adult does not take part in the mediation but assists if difficulties arise in obtaining a successful conclusion.
Mediation is a six step process. The assigned mediators will take the students through the steps, so that a resolution may be reached. At that time, a contact is drawn and both disputants sign it.
Mediation's Six Steps
- Open the session: introductions and ground rules.
- Gathering information: Ask what happened.
- Focus on common interest: What do you want?
- Create options- Brainstorm solutions.
- Evaluate options and choose the solution.
- Write the agreement and close the session.
Benefits of A Mediation Program
- Create a healthy and peaceful school climate.
- Increase student communication and problem solving skills.
- Prevent or decrease conflicts, violence and suspensions in school.
- Encourage students to seek peaceful solutions to conflict.
If you have any questions, please contact Mrs. Marcus (Principal) or Mrs. Breon (Guidance Counselor)
Peer Mediators Club
